Pretty quaint POV. And do you think its any different when the child in question is male? If you do, then you don't know parents….
Nope never been a parent. So I'm winging it. But at my "advanced" age. I may have some ideas, concepts, etc. that seem "quaint" to some … I do know my Father, a WWII INF SGT Vet. Did Not want me to join the Army, let alone a unit like the 101. But young men sometimes have to "test" & "prove" themselves, etc. Learn on their own, sometimes the hard way, etc.

I'm not sure if most females feel the same ?
However, almost all females I have contact with don't think women in combat or in combat positions really does not appeal/work for them. Let alone even be in the military.
But as I said, I've served in a CBT SPT Bn as BdeMO. I do know there were many females in those units. Including my driver. They all seemed to do their jobs well.
That being said, of the "draft" age youth I see, e.g. at the YMCA, etc. I'm not really too "impressed". But I'm sure many older generations in the past since Plato, etc. may have said similar.
[And No I didn't know Plato !]
So ….. it pays at the end of the day to be sure that the precious assets are not being misused.
I hope all those in power see things that way. However, in many cases it's not their "assets" being use or misused/expended.
The problem with any kind of study of these political topics is the political appointees will provide the outline and then pick the researchers. Thus assuring the outcome.
That it seems assuredly the "standard" … in many, many "studies" in many cases. Or so I'd think or it seems …